Each month, we chat to a Women in Tech Birmingham member, so even if you can’t get to one of our monthly Meet Up events, you can still get to know some of your fellow members.
Meet Becca Parlby who works in tech but in what she calls a “VERY untechnical role”.
Find out her advice for anyone who doesn’t have access to a mentor, the challenges she faces as a woman in tech, and more!
I’m a PR manager at a global AI company that has a tech hub in Birmingham, so even though I’m London based I get plenty of opportunities to get up to Brum for work and to catch up with my fellow WITB members!
As a woman in tech with a VERY untechnical role, I’ve had to really get to grips with all the lingo and terminology that flies around in an AI company…
A typical working day for me doesn’t exist. In the world of PR every day is totally different and it’s normal to be pulled in a hundred different directions. One day I could be working on the company’s financial announcements, and the next I could be editing an article on anomaly detection!
Outside of my day to day, I’m also a co-organiser for the Women in Tech Birmingham team, a role that I adore and has done wonders for my day job too!
Without a doubt and like most of our members that I’ve had the chance to chat with… it’s that horrid, inconvenient, debilitating imposter syndrome.
In my experience, the biggest flare ups I’ve had (and I call them flare ups because, let’s face it, they’re always going to be there) are when I’ve compared myself to how my colleagues go about certain tasks.
It’s bitter sweet because I’m a big believer in learning from others, and emulating qualities that I admire in them, but at the end of the day, everyone does things differently. You can take a totally different approach to someone else and still get the same (sometimes better!) results or outcomes.
For me, I’ve found the best solution is to really get to grips with what my strengths and weaknesses are.
For example, I now realise I’m not great at coming up with ideas on the spot in a team meeting, unlike some of my peers who seem to come up with award-winning ideas at the drop of a hat!
I’ve learnt that I need time and headspace to think about ideas on my own.
So now rather than beat myself up about it, I make sure to always do a bit of prep or reading ahead of a creative planning session so that I can come with ideas too, or at least be in a better position to bounce off other people in the meeting.
Everyone has weaknesses - the key is to not get too caught up on them and to focus on building up and celebrating your strengths instead.
I’ve been really lucky in the past that the companies I’ve worked for have offered mentorship programmes - so I’ve been mentored and also mentored a little bit myself before.
I’ve recently just been accepted on to a formal mentorship programme as a mentee as well. I’ve only had one session so far but already I’ve gotten SO much out of it.
And I also benefited hugely from being a mentor too - you can learn a lot from your own mentees!
I cannot recommend getting a mentor enough.
And if a mentor isn’t available to you immediately, then figure out who your career role models are. Ask yourself: Why do you admire them? How did they get to where they are? Is there anything they’ve done or studied that you could have a go at?
Whilst this isn’t a direct replacement for a mentor - and is hopefully just a short term solution - it’s a great way of getting some inspiration for how you want to shape your own career path.
That’s a tough one because there are SO many!
At WITB, we try to shine a light regularly on amazing women in tech, so I’ve had the chance to do a fair bit of research into some inspirational individuals.
I’ve loved learning about the journeys of the likes of Susan Wojcicki, Annie Easley, Mary Jackson and loads more. Make sure to go and check them out on our blog and sign up to our newsletter for the future ones (sign up form below)!
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